There are certain attitudes that freak me out. Do they include anger, wrath, vengeance, indignity? Nope. I’m fine with all of those. They tend to be short lived in well-rounded folk, and I tend to surround myself with relatively well-rounded folk.
I’m thinking of arrogance, sanctimoniousness, vanity, presumptiveness.
Seeing these attitudes in those I care about is disheartening.
Whenever I am disheartened in this way, I try to take stock of my own attitudes in retrospect. And I realized that seeing these attitudes in myself is revolting.